Advice: My boyfriend just asked me to move in. He said he’s basically test-driving me for marriage. What if I fail? Ask Ellie
I’m a woman, 29, who’s been dating a man for the past five months, and I really like him a lot.
I’m feeling uncomfortable about this, as if he’s setting up an experiment that only he controls. I’m worried about not meeting his private goals for us and about me. And about my becoming nervous with him instead of feeling relaxed together. Next, tell him you love him. Then state some of the negative things he’s revealed about himself: specifically, that he’s taking “control” of the relationship instead of asking what you’d choose about the relationship after these past five months of dating. And also, mention what you wouldn’t choose.
Then I realized I’m lucky in another way: I got a job in a health-care field and I enjoy how my work helps people. I have the chance to travel overseas for a special course that’ll take me to a higher level. In time, some of you will catch up with each other. You’ll rehash some of the old sports plays on special occasions, and you’ll stretch those past friendships to a new normal of getting together whenever possible.Regarding the daughter, 22, who dislikes the way her mom’s “new man” looks at the young woman or how he treats her mom :
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